Some of which, I believe, are universal to single mothers in my age bracket.I wrote this piece with the intention of supporting the man interested in a woman with children.
When you don't have anyone to answer to, come home to, or care for, your schedule belongs to you. A woman with children can't, nor could she even if she wanted to be. Daily life is planned out because children need consistency and boundaries, and she needs to maintain her sanity.
They’re quickly discovering what I did—dating with kids in tow is a whole different scenario.
One of the biggest issues we face from the get-go is: What do we say to our kids? I asked Toronto psychotherapist Jana Brankov for some surefire tips. Talk to them Trying to hide the fact that you’re dating won’t work. “You need to be authentic because kids sniff us out. Keep it simple Brankov says one of the biggest mistakes dating parents make is telling their kids too much.
“This is one of those cases where less is more,” she says.
“Provide basic information to a child, depending on age and developmental stage.” And remember: They’re your kids, not your friends.
Single moms don't have the same free will as other single women.